First of all, as a ‘matric’ parent myself, I want to applaud these youngsters for their resilience and positivity over the past 2 years. I have observed their ingenuity in creating their own high school memories, even starting new traditions, amidst missing out on so many events and highlights that previously were taken for granted.

In that vein, I would urge you as a parent to encourage your fledgling to discover the life that was meant for them, not the one that seems to be the correct one according to society. Also, continue to strengthen the foundation of parental love and support and reinforce their sense of self-worth.

But to answer the question ‘WHAT’S NEXT?’ these are some of the scenarios that could play out in the next year or so:

o You might be in the position where your son or daughter is all sorted with their career plans and what tertiary studies they want to pursue – be grateful!

o But watch out, as they might realise during the first term of their studies that their expectations and dreams do not match their new reality. In this situation, I believe in ‘fast fail’ rather than to stick with something that was not meant to be. Take action sooner rather than later!

o They might also hit a roadblock later on during their studies. Not only could it derail their carefully laid out plans, but more importantly their self-confidence and self-esteem might take a tumble. Encourage them to shout out and seek help!

o Then, on the other hand, you might be in the position where your son or daughter is still clueless about what they want to do. Don’t fret, they are only eighteen(ish) and have plenty of time still to figure that out. However, the secret is to be INTENTIONAL about ‘the figuring it out’ part.

I would suggest that the smart thing to do is to find a ‘neutral’ person (someone who is not emotionally invested) such as a mentor or a coach to guide this young adult towards finding their unique place in this world where they can be extraordinary.

This is what some of my Gen Z coaching clients had to say after such an explorative journey:

“I have been able to create a career path more specific to my liking and strengths. It is something I have not been able to do as specifically [as] now.” Anchen, 2019

“The coaching has given me the necessary tools to tackle life and problems that might arise by showing me what works for me as a person with a unique set of strengths.” Estiaan, 2021

I believe that if we could embrace our own uniqueness at a young age, it would set a foundation of self-worth to enter adulthood with confidence and self-belief. To get a sense of how I can help, please visit my website or reach out to me by completing the contact form.

Let’s apply the lessons we learnt during the pandemic and live our lives with intention and purpose!

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